Falling In Love And The Tricky Decisions That Come With It

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Falling in love can be one huge roller coaster of emotion. There is the initial butterfly feeling in your tummy when they call or text. There is the excitement of dates and seeing them again. All of which turns into love. The big strong four lettered word that changes everything. In a good way of course. However, falling in love can present us with tricky decisions that need to be made.

What happens when you want different things?

During the early stages of a relationship, it’s very easy to be led on the journey of love and forget about logical choices. Besides, you are in love, what does it matter? But the truth is you both need to want the same things for a relationship to work in the future.

It’s vital you share the same aspirations, hopes and dreams. So make sure you have these conversations early on to avoid being disappointed in the long run. This is like discussing whether you agree with marriage. Whether you both want to have a family at some point. Maybe you have children from a previous relationship. You need to take that situation into consideration.

What happens if you live in different countries?

It happens. You can’t help who you fall in love. So it’s essential to think about the big stuff if you find yourself in love with someone who resides in a different country. Will you stay in your country, will you move? These are all decisions not to be taken lightly.

If you find yourself in this sort of situation, then seek advice. There may be immigration laws to consider and this is when an immigration law firm could help you out. You then need to think of the logistics. Where will you live? What will you do for income? It isn’t a decision to go into lightly.

What happens if there is an age difference?

Age shouldn’t be a big factor in any relationship but it can be a big deal for some. Again the same philosophy stands; you can’t help who you love. When it comes to age, your present relationship isn’t always going to be the problem. It’s the future you have to think about.

It’s whether age is going to have an impact as the years pass. Do you want kids? Is that possible? What does your family think? Of course, the decision is down to you but these are all factors worth considering.

What happens when your family don’t like your chosen partner?

Families can have a huge influence on our relationships. More than we realize if we are honest. So their opinion matters whether you like it or not. Of course, if you are strong-minded, these opinions won’t affect your decisions. But it can have an impact on the future.

It depends on how deep the feelings go. Maybe they hurt you at the beginning and you have forgiven but your relatives haven’t? Maybe they don’t like them for other reasons. It’s up to you whether you let that impact your choice. But just be mindful of future implications.

Love is a tricky business; that is for sure. But when you have found the right person then you just know.

What do you think?

Written by Millennial Staff

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